Childbirth Tips - Create a Magical Laboring Cave 0
One of my all time favorite places for labor is the hospital bathroom. Say what?? Yes, it is the truth! With a little transforming the hospital bathroom can be an awesome laboring location.
How to transform a hospital bathroom starts with the lighting. The hospital lights are so harsh that I recommend never turning them on. NEVER EVER EVER turn those lights on! As a doula, one of the first things that I do is to grab some battery operated candles from my doula bag. I place three of these in the bathroom and they create enough ambient light for safety purposes and are so much better that the florescent overhead lights.
When mom is ready to spend more time laboring in the bathroom we can go ahead and add music. If she is enjoying music for labor it is a great addition to the cave. She might be listening to a playlist or just streaming some ambient spa-like music.
After the lighting and music are set the next super important step is to close (or crack open) the door. This is so important to actually get that cave-like feel. With the door closed or mostly closed she won't feel like she is being watched. It is a comforting feeling for most moms. Sometime moms even want to be left completely alone. In that case we need to make sure that mom knows that her partner and doula are right outside the door. If moms do want company in the cave we can pull in a stool for her partner/doula. Don't forget, Mom also needs a beverage, preferably a cup with a straw.
The bathroom is a great place to labor whether it be in the tub, shower or the toilet!
Women Entrepreneurs - Business Planning for 2015 0
We all lead busy lives. Sometimes we are so caught up in the day to day grind that we don't have time to look forward to the next year. As doulas we are often scheduling clients many months out, but are we scheduling work towards or business goals?
It doesn't take an advanced degree to know that we need to take time to set goals for our business. Without goals our biggest dreams for our businesses and lives won't be realized...or not in a timely manner for sure. Taking time to set goals and follow-up on them is no easy task!
Back in 2013, I stumbled upon Leonie Dawson's business planning workbooks. They immediately appealed to my creative spirit and really spoke to me. I decided to give them a try! I made the purchase, downloaded the file and uploaded it to Fedex where I had the workbook printed and bound. I remember how excited I was when I picked it up. I couldn't wait to have a moment alone to read it and start filling out the pages. With four kids at home, a business to run and a million other things that were taking my attention this took awhile. When I finally had time to dive into this workbook I WAS HOOKED!
Leonie's workbook is female focused and designed for the entrepreneur that has a business with a clear purpose. The pages lead you through the planning process with questions that are necessary to answer in order to make progress in your business. Filling out the workbook takes time and energy. It took me several sessions or quiet time and many cups of coffee. It was SO worth it! In 2013, I was able to lead a more organized effort to grow my business and this workbook was key to this success.
Here we are at the cusp of 2015 and I just purchased the new version of the workbook! I was actually bubbling with excitement when I got an email alerting me that it was out! I purchased the ebook because I am trying to be more paperless, but I'm leaning to printing it out again. There is just a wonderful satisfaction to scribbling, doodling and crossing things off.
I believe that this workbook is ideal for women entrepreneurs. If you are looking for a planning resource I highly recommend that you take a look at this workbook. Leonie also has other cool programs related to goal setting, blogging and getting the most out of your life. In full disclosure, I am part of Leonie's referral network (meaning I make $ for all sales I refer). I love the product and wouldn't suggest it if I didn't use it myself and believe that it will be helpful to my customers and blog readers.
If you decide to plan your year using this workbook, please let me know! I am putting together a group so that we can all keep each other on track and make the most out of 2015!
Leave a comment below and let me know what tools you recommend for business planning or if you also use Leonie's workbook.
Teaching Private Childbirth Class - 5 Essential Items 0
The setting for most of my private classes is in my clients home, usually in a family room. There is often a coffee table in the center of the room which is the perfect spot for a set of compact posters. This set along with my demonstration baby/uterus/placenta/cord and pelvis models are my primary visual aids.
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Doula Bag Items - Our Top 5 Must Haves 3
After doula training is done, the doula bag seems to be the next project to tackle. Your list of items will likely evolve as you get more experience. Many doulas start out carrying a lot of items and then end up with a lean bag. Sometime I even hear doulas say that they don't carry any tools in their bags but instead carry items just for themselves.
My bag has definitely changed through the years, but there are 5 items that I feel are my must haves.
What do you think are your doula bag must have items? I would love to find out! Please click on the 'comment' link on the side of the blog and share your knowledge.
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Peanut Ball Survey Results 2
The Peanut Ball is the hottest tool for labor. At the recent Lamaze DONA Conference I think I heard that phrase uttered thousands of times. At YourDoulaBag, we have been offering the ball for purchase for almost one full year and we were curious about how life with the peanut is going. We created a quick survey and have some interesting results to share.
Have you used your Peanut Ball yet?
It's pretty clear that survey respondents are actually using their peanut balls.
If you have used your peanut ball, how do you like it?
Results here are a little mixed, but the majority (63%) either love it or like it. Our comments on the question were interesting. Emily Nolan not only selected "I love it", but went on to comment that it is "A lifesaver for moms who have epidurals or who have otherwise limited mobility." Another respondent said "Even though the hospital had one too, neither the nurses or I knew how to use it properly. Harder than it looks!"
Are you pleased with the size of your Peanut Ball?
While the majority of respondents were pleased with the sized, we did have some conflicting comments. One respondent said "I feel like I might enjoy also a bigger one" and another respondent said "I had to deflate it a bit to get a better fit". I think the conclusion here is that moms aren't one size and the peanut ball (just like the birth ball) won't fit perfectly for all women.
Are you pleased with the Quality of your Peanut Ball?
As the retailer, we are so pleased with the answer to this question. As a result we will continue to offer the Gymnic Brand balls.
Do you use a cover on your Peanut Ball?
Covers on the Peanut seem to be popular and desired. One respondent said "LOVE the cover" and Lou Ann Damsma answered "I use the cover to carry the ball and then sheets or hospital gowns to cover it in labor." Our ball covers will fit the 65cm round balls and the 40cm peanut balls that we sell.
Why do you like having a Peanut Ball?
We received lots of answers to this question and have chosen a few to share.
1) Sarah Wingrove said "Keeps moms' pelvises open when lying in bed with an epidural"
2) Daine Zacharin said "More options to offer"
3) Janis Spinak said "Allow ladies to use during class with position changes to see how pelvis opens"
4) Emily Nolan said "Additionally, as a doula, there's often a feeling of frustration when an epidural is placed- in that it becomes much more difficult to help labor progress when mom is confined to the bed. I don't feel so helpless when I have the peanut ball, because I've seen it work its magic in aiding labor progress in more than a few women whose care providers suspected 'failure to progress'"
Our goal is to provide the best tools that will make a difference in the lives of our customers. It seems like our customers in the whole are pleased with their purchase of the peanut ball and are actually getting some good use out of it. We have put together a blog with references to more information about the peanut, but the next step for us is to put together even more resources so that our customers will get the most out of this product.
Here is where we would like to hear from you! Please comment below with any questions that you have about the peanut ball. We want to know what you are still wondering about this product.
Limp and Loose in Labor - 8 Practical Tips 6
The muscle at the center of labor is the uterus and the cervix is the passageway between the uterus and the vagina. I like to think of the cervix like doors that have to open up before the baby can exit. The role of each contraction is to gently open the cervix or open up the doors.
The cervix should open more effectively when the laboring woman is limp and loose. This isn't easy! During contractions it is common to want to brace against the sensation. Women are often seen squeezing their partner's hand, grabbing onto bed rails, clenching their bum and even closing their eyes with a good deal of force.
8 Tips on staying Limp and Loose for Labor:
1. Open mouth and let lower jaw hang.
2. Shake out arms and hands.
3. Blow horse lips
4. Rest hands with palms facing upward
5. Move shoulders up and down noticing any tension
6. Have support people use phrases like "limp and loose", "rag doll", and "go boneless"
7. Check in with your bum. No bum clenching!
8. Wiggle it! If any areas seem tight try to give them a wiggle to release the muscles.
Not only should staying limp and loose help contractions be more effective but reducing tension also helps reduce pain!
Check out the image that we created with these tips.